How my husband know what I am trying to say every time

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Many people (family members or friend or colleague) once asked me, "How do you able to communicate with your husband if he can not hear what you are saying ?"

I said, "even when I really can not pronounce it accurately, my husband can still be able to understand on what I was really saying. Maybe It is fate." 😊

He was surprised: "Huh? Why does your husband really be able to understand what you say?"🤨

I smiled and said, "Because my husband has been listening to me for more than 10 years and is used to my voice."🥰

I am deaf, but I can speak, I just can not pronounce it accurately.

I would say "market" as "chicken leg" and say "homework" as "donut". 🍩

Once I said to my husband, "I want to eat fish tonight."🐟

He said, "Huh? Want congee?" 🥣

I hurriedly said, "Fish! Swimming ones!"

He smiled and said, "Oh ~ fish, understand, I will go to the market to buy some fish for you."🛒

My husband never minds me being unclear.

My husband Never say "What did you say?"

My husband Will only look at my mouth shape, then he will guess what I was saying and confirm with me👀💬

I asked my husband , "Why do you always understand on what I was really saying?"

My husband said, "Because that is exactly how your voice is, I am used to hearing it. And... fate."💕

I always think that

It is just that the frequency is different for everyone.

My husband does not listen to me with his ears, my husband folds my frequency with his heart 🎵❤️

For more than a decade,

It does not rely on writing, it does not rely on typing.

It depends on a habit and a fate 💞

My husband was the first person who did not think that my deafness was a problem to himself .

Now, my husband is the only one without a blood green relationship who can understand all my weird pronunciations😂💕

This kind of tacit understanding is more secure than any love talk🌹