Do you hate your in-laws

"Do you hate your in-laws"

everyone , do you really hate to live together with your in-laws?

I am being married into a family in Chiayi in Taiwan, but I am not saying that Chiayi is bad. I am talking about "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" issues. Some people are really very lucky to have good mothers-in-law, but I am not one of these lucky people and I am really not so lucky to have a good mother-in-law. Actually, I have a very traditional and mundane mother-in-law who will really go around all relatives and all family members telling every one of the relatives on how I am if my mother-in-law has even the most slightest dissatisfaction with I. And things become worse when I got pregnant with my baby I was carrying. After I had born my baby out, and take care of my baby, my mother-in-law had even go and told people that my mother-in-law herself had even took better care of the baby than I really did when my mother-in-law neglected my baby and I and just sleep in house or just sit in house. My husband also speaks up for me, but our own "mother-in-law or daughter-in-law issues" are really very complex and very difficult to settle. Even when I filled out the postpartum anxiety form, I felt like I really had postpartum depression; I really felt like I was sick.

One time, my mother-in-law came back from going out and my mother-in-law suddenly blamed me or suddenly immediately scolded me for not regularly changing the baby's diaper. Even when the diaper is dry without any excrements, My mother-in-law only keeps saying that " The baby own diaper was wet, didn't you see? "The baby's diaper wasn't wet when she left.

Soon after my mother-in-law had really said that the baby diaper is wet , I checked the baby diaper, but the diaper was dry.

The baby only went to the toilet after my mother-in-law came back. When I went to change the baby diaper, my mother-in-law will just violently push me away and she said, "Go away, I will change your baby diaper for you," and then said to my baby, "Mommy is naughty, your mummy did not even go change your diaper." My mother-in-law really does not even care about you at all. When a new mother heard of something like that from my mother-in-law, tears well (went) up in my eyes. My husband saw this and kept comforting me.

Please leave a comment after reading this 🥺 Don't leave random comments when you are already upset. My mood is already very bad. Also, we have already separated from my mother-in-law and had already moved out from my mother-in-law old house to avoid any more trauma from her anymore