You should never do this when you want to date her.

When conversing with a lady  there are certain situations that matter how much you are compelled ,never go beyond it.

Texting more than once when she has has responded the initial text.

In this case it will depict your character of intolerance and impatience.Moreso,it wouldn't allow a candid communition simply because she would be answering what only is  favorable for her an the end no objective achieved.

Dont be a narcist.

Don't talk so much about yourself depriving the sense of the conversation allow turn-taking,give her time to articulate your intention, talk about general ideas as your approach the goal point drastically.

Don't use vulgur language.

Men that tend to us vulgur language are perceived to be sexual pervert,by most ladies.This will definitely shun off any lady you wanna talk to into listening to you.

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