Neither of you is growing

In many relationships, one person will help the other person to grow, or they may both support each other to become better people.

You feel like you are missing something

When you feel like you are missing something in your relationship and this feeling doesn’t go away, you may want to pay attention. It might be that your mind is telling you I never was in love and that you might want to move on.

You have no interest in what they say anyway

Even if your partner talks to you, this may be of little importance to you. When you don’t feel like you care at all about what your significant other is saying, this should probably tell you that you are not in love with them anymore.

You don’t talk to each other

You may not be talking to each other at all besides arguing, and this is something that should make you stop and think. If you are unable to talk to your mate at all, you possibly were never in love with your spouse.