Let your relationship be defined in the early stage.

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"Emeka, where is this relationship heading to?

"Let's see how it goes...", Emeka replied her.

1 year has gone

"Let's see how it goes.."

2 years has gone. 

"Let's see how it goes."

3 years has gone. 

"Let's see how it goes..."

4 years has gone.

"Let's give ourselves a breathing space, please. Every relationship must not end in marriage."

Few days ago, a man told his girlfriend of 2 years that his friend would like to marry someone like her.

"You will be good for one of my friends, for marriage."

She felt it's a joke.

Not until dude started acting like NEPA.

The truth is, nothing was defined from the beginning. It's "let's see how it goes", flings, aunty thought she was in love.

The same mindset they call dating. No destination but wanting exclusivity and loyalty.  No plans. Nothing in view. One feeling something is going on, the other feeling it's just cruise.

I know many don't like this topic I am discussing, but do I look like I care?

Until we stop playing on our emotions and that of others and tell ourselves the truth.

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