Being qiuet while you are abused is not a good thing . Why do you prefer to suffer from the inside rather than to speak up and get help? Being a victim of abuse will have negative effect to you while you are looking at what good do you get in the relationship. Speak up while the demage has not gone far. Abuse victims have various reasons why they keep quiet .
Many individuals keep qiuet just because the abuser is the one who provide certain things in house or realationship. The abusers sometimes do things to make the victim to be scared, even if people ask question seeing that they notice the abuse happening victims do not speak out. Sometimes they are having a hope that one day their partners will change . Others believe that love has to have challenges , while they do not notice that the effect will have bad impact to them physical and emotional. For me you better be safe than to heal from incident which you were having an option to be not on. In South frica we are facing a big disease called Gender Based violence which keep on getting bigger than before. There are campaigns runned by the State to fight this.
We must stand together and fight against abuse in relationship . We must also makes our self aware of abuse to avoid being victims because the healing process is not easy. No one should have power over another person or able to turn a person to a punching bag. Enough is enough.
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