A child made outside of wedlock/relationship.

A child made outside of wedlock/relationship.

Science has proven that men tend to have s£xual affairs for s£xual pleasure, even it is proven that most men cheat on their partners.

In the past when a couple was getting married in some cultures a woman was being told never to ask a man he's whereabouts or where he slept,women  have be taught to tolerate such behaviour without asking any questions.

Now in the new age women have a say in a relationship, now due to the old age rules kids where being born out of wedlock and it is happening in this age .  Men cheat,have s£xual affairs with the other woman and impregnate them .

How is the infidelity being forgiven? The elders will advise you to persevere and stay in your relationship and protect your marriage,as a woman would you accept the kid or leave your marriage?. I've made a research from social media in relationship groups and most women would rather stay in an unhealthy relationship since they wouldn't allow another woman to wreck their marriage, and leaving your home and relationship will be like opening the door for the other woman to play wife in your house.  Other woman have responded that they put their health first and would divorce their partners .

If a child is made out of a relationship before you married how as a girlfriend and boyfriend deal with it, because a cheating boyfriend will be a cheating husband. We shouldn't turn a blind eye on this relationship, afterall my advice is to love yourself and be in a healthy relationship.

                            By:TshegoM.